See my shoes? Want to be in them?
I am a Bihari
* and proud to be one.
Wherever I go I have to face questions like, "Do women come out in the streets in Patna?" or "How can you allow a Rabri to rule the state?" and jokes like "Lets give Bihar to Pakistan and then give them Kashmir too" or the one where Laloo tells the Japanese that he would turn Japan into Bihar in a jiffy. Ha! Ha! Good one... except its all not funny beyond a point.
Its true that the state has fallen into an abyss and the politicians are crooks. But remember, what happened in Gujarat has NEVER happened in Bihar; Jayalalitha is no less a crook than Laloo; Mayawati is no more polished than Rabri; Sonia does not have greater credibility than any Bihari politician... and most importantly the average Bihari that you meet is neither a Laloo nor a Rabri and we hate those swine more than anyone else.
Most of us educated Biharis have to look out for opportunities and its not easy for us to give up our roots and settle in alien cities. And, now, our folks (most of them poor labourers) are killed in Assam and threatened by that Big Goon Thackarey in Mumbai. No wonder we can identify the most with vitriolic attacks on Indian expats like in Germany, Malaysia and the US.
Please take time to read
this article by a Bihari journalist, M J Akbar, on the plight of the Bihari. And please treat the next Bihari you meet on his/ her merits and not on their provincial affiliation.
*Bihari: Inhabitant of Bihar, an eastern Indian state. Historically, Bihar has given a great contribution to the composite Indian culture as we know it today. Gautam Buddha, Mahavira and Chanakya were born there. The ancient glorious cities of Pataliputra and Rajagriha, world-famous university of Nalanda, the first republic in the world at Vaishali - they are all there. Over time and due to economic reasons Bihar is now one of India's least developed provinces with low literacy and high infant-mortality levels.
Posted at 12/3/2003 3:24:48 pm by Ranjan
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Babita December 13, 2003 04:15 AM PST
Totally agree with you. Over here I have some people for some ridiculous reason think chinese dont know how to speak english. They would bend over and pay extra attention to understand them. |
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Coquine Caroline December 9, 2003 10:35 PM PST
I'm German and very proud of it.. but you wouldn't believe what kind of crap I get for being German! People believe I myself am personally responsible for the 2nd world war...! |
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jo December 9, 2003 03:13 PM PST
its not only with bihari's its with everyone..the shit is goin to be around...all u have to do is ignore it |
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megan December 7, 2003 10:15 AM PST
very true words, the same sort of attitude is seen towards tamilians and malayalees, calling them mallus and annachees with a slight mock in ur tone is so derogatory |
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speed December 5, 2003 08:32 AM PST
Hey came here from Melodrama's blog. I like your blog :) And I can identify with the travails of a Bihari- having to live in alien cities. Must be difficult. And I do have a few Bihari friends from college- I got the impression that they are very warm and hard working people. My Dad was born and educated in Bihar so I do feel an affinity to Bihar :) But ppl do tend to stereotype sadly. |
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Megha December 4, 2003 03:51 PM PST
nice to see there r exceptions to the typical bihari.. :P but seriously.. nice post.. nice definition too. |
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Krithika December 4, 2003 12:04 PM PST
*quotes*Jayalithaa is no less a crook than Laloo. Indeed yes. Imagine passing a law forcing that all elephants have got to be sent on a 'vacation' when there are more pressing matters to deal with in the state. |
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alpha December 4, 2003 09:08 AM PST
Good post Ranj. I have interacted with many Biharis in college and during my stay in Bihar. This is quite an eye opener..but I still hold some of my biased views. Wot to do, its human nature.
I liked your defn for Bihari. |
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ricercar December 3, 2003 09:48 PM PST
i read the article. came here from melo's blog. the article is very well writen. i feel bad about how all the good people, the strong personalities, good brains that come out of bihar just come out and lose their "bihari" identity and the only thing thats left associated with bihar is its dark side. I am a bengali but my family has lived in bihar for ages and half my cousins are bihari. they are - most of them - so different from us. but its bcz of the way condns are over there. and its a vicious cycle |
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Melodrama December 3, 2003 04:08 PM PST
Ditto about UP. Interesting article and perspective. |
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